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Review: The Common Rule Youth Edition

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The Common Rule Youth Edition

The Common Rule Youth Edition, Justin Whitmel Early. InterVarsity Press (ISBN: 9781514010433) 2025.

Summary: Eight spiritual habits or practices for teens and tweens to help them grow in their faith.

I first trusted my life to Christ at age eleven and seriously began following Christ when I was just short of sixteen. I heard a lot about how to become Christian. Then I went on retreats that encouraged me in my faith in Christ. But no one for a long time shared with me about how I might grow in my faith. So, it is with great pleasure that I welcomed the publication of Justin Whitmel Early’s The Common Rule Youth Edition. In additional to seeing how helpful his earlier The Common Rule was with the young adults with whom I worked, I thought, “this is the book I wish I had as a teen follower of Jesus.”

This book is much like his earlier book. He offers eight habits, four daily and four weekly. Two of each focus on loving God and two on loving neighbor. Also, two of focus on embracing the good in God’s world and two of each on resisting destructive cultural influences. They are:

Daily:

  1. Kneeling Prayer morning, midday, and bedtime (Love God/embrace)
  2. One meal with others. (Love neighbor/embrace)
  3. One hour with phone off (Love neighbor/resist)
  4. Scripture before phone (Love God/resist)

Weekly:

  1. One hour of conversation with a friend (Love neighbor/embrace)
  2. Four hours of physical activity (Love neighbor/resist)
  3. Fast from something for twenty-four hours (Love God/resist)
  4. Sabbath (Love God/embrace)

The one difference from the adult version is substituting four hours of physical activity for “curate media to four hours.” This recognizes the need of teens for intense physical activity for both physical and spiritual health as well as the gift of our bodies which our screen-oriented society encourages us to neglect. Also, it does set some boundaries on social media.

A chapter is devoted to each of the eight habits. Early offers an explanation of each habit and then a practical section at the end with “The Habit at a Glance,” “Three Ways to Start,” and “Three Considerations.”

One of the ideas of a “common rule” is to pursue these practices with others and Early offers suggestions for sharing these practices in a youth ministry in church, or with friends in a school setting. He adapts the practices to the lives of middle and high schoolers. He also recognizes that meals together may need to be negotiated with parents and refraining from food should be cleared with them and never be done by someone with an eating disorder.

Early opens the book discussing the value of habit, including the pattern of destructive habits that brought him to create the Common Rule. But what I thought of even greater help is his concluding chapter on failure, something I often struggled with as a young Christian (and still do!). Early suggests that when we fall, we fall into grace. And so we get up and “keep walking toward beauty.” He observes how a life consists of the small daily decisions to get up and keep embracing these habits of faithfulness.

This is not a “silver bullet.” If there is one, I haven’t found it. But I can see how this might be so helpful in a youth ministry, particularly with supportive adults who are also using the rule. And the practices lend themselves to be fleshed out with scripture and prayer resources. Furthermore, these habits temper or replace destructive habits fostered in our culture, offering another way to live. I hope this book enjoys wide use.

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Disclosure of Material Connection: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher for review.

Review: The Common Rule

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The Common Rule, Justin Whitmel Earley. Downers Grove: InterVarsity Press, 2019.

Summary: Offers an alternative to the habits of our technological world that make us busy, distracted, anxious, and isolated by proposing a set of habits enabling us to live into loving God and neighbor, and into freedom and rest.

Justin Earley was a well-intentioned, missional Christian with ambitious goals who found himself having panic attacks and self-medicating with pills and alcohol and other destructive habits. A life of busyness shaped increasingly by technology was undermining his health and relationships. He recognized that he was being shaped by a set of cultural habits, ways of being that left him busy, distracted, anxious, and isolated. He saw that these habits were not only shaping his schedule; they were forming his heart. Along with some friends, he identified an alternate set of daily and weekly habits that they thought were consonant with their shared faith. He began sharing these with others, and eventually, in conversation with a pastor, realized that he and his friends had rediscovered an ancient practice going back to Augustine and Benedict of living under a rule of life, hence the name they adopted, The Common Rule.

The Common Rule Consists of four daily and four weekly habits. Two of each of these focus on loving God, and two on loving neighbor. Also two of each focus on embracing the good in God’s world, and two of each focus on resisting destructive cultural practices, even as we pursue a life of love. The eight are:

Daily:

  1. Kneeling Prayer morning, midday, and bedtime (Love God/embrace)
  2. One meal with others. (Love neighbor/embrace)
  3. One hour with phone off (Love neighbor/resist)
  4. Scripture before phone (Love God/resist)

Weekly:

  1. One hour of conversation with a friend (Love neighbor/embrace)
  2. Curate media to four hours (Love neighbor/resist)
  3. Fast from something for twenty-four hours (Love God/resist)
  4. Sabbath (Love God/embrace)

After introductory chapters explaining the rule, one chapter of the book is devoted to each habit, explaining the rationale for each habit and concluding with practical instructions for practicing the habit. He concludes the book with the observation of art critic Michael Kimmelman that the greatest work of art is the “curating of all of life as a single witness to something grand” (p. 162). Earley then applies this to the work of habits in our lives. He writes:

“I believe that paying attention to the work of habit is similar. It is best thought of as giving attention to the art of habit. It isn’t about trying to live right; it’s about curating a life. It is the art of living beautifully” (p. 163).

The book concludes with an extremely helpful set of resources for individuals or groups (Earley believes it is especially helpful to practice these disciplines with others who voluntarily enter in so that individuals can encourage each other). The resources include the habits in a nutshell, a guide to trying one habit a week, trying the whole Common Rule for a week or a month, ways congregations can use the Common Rule, prayers for those trying the Common Rule, and ways the Common Rule might be used in different walks of life for skeptics, parents, at work, for artists and creatives, entrepreneurs, addicts, and those with mental illnesses.

It may be a small thing, but I appreciated the typography of the book. The medium blue of the cover is used for titles, subtitles, diagrams, quote grabs, and headers, setting this book off from most mono-chromatic texts. More substantively, the practical application of James K. A. Smith’s ideas of cultural liturgies and the early fathers practice of rule of life makes for an inviting book grounded in rigorous thought and tested practice. Couple this with his own vulnerable example, and you have a winsome exposition of the practices that makes you want to start right away. The practices of scripture before phone, shutting off the phone for at least an hour, and curating media were both challenging and helpful for this reader whose life is too dominated by the smartphone. Whether you embrace the full rule, or substitute other practices, Earley’s Common Rule offers an important alternative for people of faith to the ways our technological culture may lure us into frantic busyness, distraction, anxiety, and isolation instead of helping us curate beautiful lives of love for God and neighbor.

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Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.