
Becoming God’s Family
Becoming God’s Family, Carmen Joy Imes, IVP Academic (ISBN: 9781514010327) 2025.
Summary: A biblical theology of the church for the disillusioned, addressing faults and casting vision for its importance.
This book had its beginning around a campfire with extended family. One member “expressed that he believed in Jesus but saw no use for the church.” Imes concluded, “Someone needed to make a case for it.” This book is that case. Imes recognizes that many have good reason to be disillusioned with the church. For example, she cites toxic leadership, abuse scandals, financial mismanagement, and divisive politics. But she also shows in this book how the church has, even from Old Testament times, been integral to God’s purposes. She draws arcs from the biblical stories to many contemporary abuses. But she also casts a vision for what it means for us to be the church and how we may become what we are within God’s purposes.
Beginning with Abraham, Imes traces the unfolding story of this family God forms at its best and worst. We see the harm Abraham and Sarah do in exploiting Hagar, and how, just as God saw Hagar’s suffering, he sees that of the abused. Imes describes Israel at her best, and her sad and sordid decline under the judges where they neglect even basic hospitality. Then amid the kingships of David and Solomon, Imes focuses on Rizpah. Specifically, she shows the importance of setting broken commitments right.
Following this, she addresses the divided kingdom and how false worship leads to self-destruction. Yet there are also instances of renewed attention to God’s Word. When nationhood is destroyed by exile, God sustains a community to remain and return. But the prophets recall Israel to a more expansive vision to bless the nations and become a multiethnic family. Yet the returned exiles do not fully realize that vision.
However, the coming of Jesus realizes the wider multiethnic community embedded in his human genealogy from Samaritan women to the nations of Pentecost to the Roman empire. Paul’s ministry models crossing ethnic boundaries and forming multiethnic communities that are one body. The book concludes with the vision of the church as the new temple, the place where God dwells and shows himself to the world.
Throughout this narrative, Imes offers both sparkling biblical insights and telling applications, mixed with her personal story. For example, she shows how Israel, from its beginnings was a multi-ethnic family of Egyptians, Canaanites, Mesopotamians, Midianites, and Moabites. Turning to the New Testament, she offers the idea that “all Israel” in Romans 9-11 breaks with Paul’s usage of “the Jews” in the rest of the book, and that “Israel” was dispersed among the nations in 721 BC. Rather, the restoration of “all Israel” finds fulfillment through believing Gentiles from those nations incorporated into one body with Jewish believers.
Imes also addresses contemporary concerns ranging from church abuse to Christian nationalism. She writes with conviction about the place of children in the church. Then she also discusses when it is right to leave a church. More positively, she paints a vision of an inclusive community of generosity and justice, where we experience belovedness and belonging.
While there is so much good material in this book the interleaving of biblical exegesis, contextual sidebars, applicative asides, and personal narrative sometimes results in a disjointed narrative within the chapters. Also, the final chapter theme of the new temple seemed to sparingly deal with the New Testament material. So much more could have been done, it seems with portraying the glory of God in and through his people. Instead, the concluding question is, “Where and with whom do you plan to worship this week?”
That said, there is so much that is helpful beginning with tracing the story of the church not merely to Pentecost but to Abraham. In addition to bibliography, the book includes QR codes linked to BibleProject for each chapter. Finally, Imes makes a compelling case for investing in the church, related to the purposes and working of God.
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Disclosure of Material Connection: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher for review.
Other reviews of Carmen Joy Imes books in this series:
Bearing God’s Name: https://bobonbooks.com/2023/06/09/review-bearing-gods-name/
Being God’s Image: https://bobonbooks.com/2023/06/16/review-being-gods-image/




