Growing Up in Working Class Youngstown — Memorial Day Parades

Parade Down Federal Street, circa 1940 / copyright Ohio Historical Society

Parade Down Federal Street, circa 1940 / copyright Ohio Historical Society

Memorial Day weekend. Time to fire up the grill if you haven’t already. Spring is coming to an end, the last frost is past and the gardens are going. And when I was a kid in Youngstown, we would make our way downtown to the Memorial Day Parade along what we then called Federal Street.

We usually found a place near the Home Savings and Loan building. The challenge was working your way in front of the tall people so you could see all the action.

Probably the most fun was to see and hear all the marching bands from the local high schools with the drum majors and majorettes twirling (and dropping) batons as they made their way down the street. There was lots of John Philips Sousa. Nothing says patriotism like his marches such as Stars and Stripes Forever.

There were the various veterans posts with men marching in their uniforms carrying American and veterans post flags. Of course this was fitting on a day when we honored the service of our military and those who died. Many of these were World War II and Korea veterans only fifteen to twenty years or so after these conflicts. My dad, who was an Army veteran from World War II would always stand a bit straighter, almost as if he was at attention. Maybe it was just pride.

Interspersed with these groups would be our local celebrities–the mayor and other local politicians riding in convertibles, and other local leaders. I always remember the pretty girls who would be perched on top of the back seats waving at the crowds.

As a small kid, it was always cool to see the police come by in both police cruisers and on motorcycles. And the fire department would always have at least one of their trucks in the parade sirens blaring.

There would be a mix of other groups as well. You would have dance groups dancing their way down Federal Street. There would be union locals with union officials in more convertibles, always carrying a sign with the local number and some slogan. There were ROTC units from Youngstown University and ethnic groups in costume

All this seems pretty tame fare by modern standards. But it was a great way to begin this day where we remembered those who served, and especially those who gave all for their country. Our patriotism was yet to be tempered by cynicism over our country’s involvement in Viet Nam. Our parents were members of “The Greatest Generation”.

We didn’t talk a great deal about those wars. Then as now, wars were terrible things and the most vivid memories were not ones easily revisited. But after the parade, we often went to a cemetery, to lay a wreath, to place a flag at a veteran’s grave, to remember. Years later, when my son was involved in Boy Scouts, his troop would place flags at all the graves of veterans at a local cemetery. When we finished, the place was abloom with flags. So many served.

But then it was often off to my grandparents until grandma passed in 1965. Cousins and uncles would be there for a big picnic in their big backyard. I remember how good the hot dogs were off the grill with relish and mustard. Then there was my grandmother’s potato salad. We topped off the day with the first fireworks of the summer at Idora Park. We’d often watch from Rocky Ridge, where we could see the fireworks over the trees.

School was almost finished for the year and Memorial Day got us thinking of all the fun things we liked to do in summer. Good memories of a simpler time.

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Growing Up in Working Class Youngstown — New Year’s Memories

Have you made your New Year’s Eve plans yet? For many of us growing up, we either watched our parents go out to parties at the homes of friends or at one of the local restaurants that hosted New Year’s Eve celebrations. I remember many years where family gathered at our home, and much like today, we watched the ball drop in Times Square. My earliest memory of this was the year 1960–little did we know what a momentous decade this would be! Instead of a “Rockin’ New Year’s Eve, it was the “champagne music” of Guy Lombardo and the Royal Canadians that would accompany our celebrations on TV.

"Guy Lombardo" by Gottlieb, William P., 1917-, photographer.

“Guy Lombardo” by Gottlieb, William P., 1917-, photographer.

New Year’s Eve was one of those rare times us kids would get a taste of alcohol — maybe a weak highball or a taste of champagne — but we were included in the celebration! My wife remembers spaghetti with calamari (squid). As a kid, one of her uncles told her she didn’t need to swallow them, they walked down on their own!

New Year’s Day would be parades, pork and sauerkraut, and football. As a child, my wife thought it was a rule that you had to watch the New Year’s parades. I always scratched my head at the extravagant waste of all those flowers on the Rose Parade floats while being amazed at the ingenious things the float-builders made out of them.

In Youngstown, the staple dish of New Year’s celebrations (at least in both my and my wife’s homes) was some form of pork and sauerkraut. Among the German and Slavic peoples who settled in Youngstown, eating pork and sauerkraut was thought to bring you good luck and prosperity in the coming year. According to this Akron-Beacon Journal article, the Pennsylvania Dutch preferred pork because pigs never look back when foraging for their food. Having a hog in the larder meant you would eat for the winter. Cabbage was harvested in the fall and the best way to put it up was as sauerkraut which took 6-8 weeks to brine, meaning it was ready around New Year’s.

Of course there was always football, and the TV was on all day with the Sugar, Cotton and Rose Bowls, among others. Often we were rooting for the Buckeyes to win the Rose Bowl, just as we will be this New Year’s evening in the Sugar Bowl playoff game. The punch that ended Woody Hayes’ career was actually not on New Year’s Day but on December 29, 1978 in the Gator Bowl against Clemson when he slugged Charlie Bauman who had intercepted an Art Schlicter pass and was knocked out of bounds.

Ceremonial Crucifix used in blessing of houses (c)2014 Robert C Trube

Ceremonial Crucifix used in blessing of homes (c)2014 Robert C Trube

Youngstown’s eastern and southern European population was heavily Catholic and one of the traditions that was important in my wife’s home and many from this background was the blessing of homes. This occurred traditionally on Ephiphany, January 6 but because it took time for the priests to get around to all the homes in each parish, this could occur sometime between Christmas and January 6 and often right around the beginning of the New Year. My wife still has the ceremonial crucifix that her family used when the priest came to bless their home. At its base was a bottle for holy (or epiphany) water. The candles were lit and the priest would go about each room of the home sprinkling it with holy water and saying prayers. Then, because Epiphany celebrates the arrival of the Magi, the traditional names of the wise men (Caspar, Melchior and Balthasar) or their initials C + M + B would be chalked by the priest over the doorway of the home. These initials also stand for the Latin Christus mansionem benedicat, which means “Christ bless this house.” CatholicCulture.org has a good explanation of this practice with an example of the prayers used.

Since this is my last post on “Growing Up in Working Class Youngstown” for 2014, I want to wish all of you who have followed these posts a Happy and Blessed New Year!